One of the
biggest mistakes in adapting congregational worship to the small group setting is trying to replicate something that isn't meant to be. The proverbial "new wine into old wineskins not working" must surely apply here. The dynamic of a handful of people is completely different from a congregation of fifty or more. Yet, we often try to "recreate the Sunday thing" in a home, office or third space setting.
WORSHIP is one of the 4W's which is most avoided, neglected or misunderstood for all the members of a small group. Some of this might be due to the fact that we haven't really defined what WORSHIP is and we don't have a grip on what God really seeks from us either.
Let's simply define
WORSHIP
- My heart's response to God- Father, Son and Holy Spirit
- Involves recognizing and responding to HIS character by inward and outward expressions of thanksgiving, praise and adoration
- This response should overflow into every part of my life
- Worship also means lining up my life in accordance with God's character and will
- Involves an ongoing yeilding of myself to him, willingness to hear his corrective voice and, as a consequence, to be changed by the power of the Holy Spirit in my daily life.
One can see from this definition that there are
many aspects of WORSHIP which can have
more opportunity for expression in the small group context than in a larger group context.
Let's highlight these strengths and outcomes of worship in the small group setting
1.
A relaxed, informal atmosphere-
promoting trust and transparency for inward growth, seeing the Truths modeled in others' lives, sharing the process, so it's not about "me "but about "us".
Remember Jesus' promise in Matthew 18:20, "Where two or three are gathered in My name, there I am in the midst of them".
- Encourage the 3-way conversation - easily moving from one to the other
- Give space for people to share what they are learning and struggling with spiritually
- Discipling new followers in how to live 24/7 in the Light is the goal!
- Interdependency is key for "thriving" vs. "surviving"
2. Specific Thanks
In a small group, there is opportunity for us to move from generalities to specifics. Each time we get together this should be the rhythm of what we share. Our worhip then becomes grounded in the reality of God's goodness everyday in our lives.
- Emphasize weekly sharing of praises- model it consistently and the pattern is established.
- Keep a record of these praises and periodically bring the journal out and read it through as a group - we all forget without reminders!
- Celebrate as a group in response to the thanks. Get creative with symbolic acts eg: burning or burying old past struggles, doing a make-over of someone's house, changing someone's name to one of promise.
3.
All can participate
In a small group setting, everyone counts. Paul's statement in 1 Corinthians 14:26 ("When you come together,
everyone has a hymn, or a word of instruction, a revelation...") can actually happen. And note Paul's insistence: '(they)
must be done for the strenghthening of the church'. When everyone particpates, everyone benefits.
- Make sure that no one dominates the worship expression - this can easily happen if someone is musical and all look to that person.
- Emphasize the fact that each has a unique contribution and gifting - don't give preference to one expression.
- Assist those less able to recognize what they can contribute.
- Be creative and sensitive to the time and the setting where you mee t- try to meet somewhere else occasionally so that the setting doesn't hinder all participating.
4.
Honesty
Small groups give opportunity for people to be more honest and open in their worship. In the Psalms we see not only joy and contentment, but also confusion, disappointment, frustration - even anger. However, these are expressed in the context of the unchanging faithfulnees and love of God.
In the small group we can acknowledge negative situations and feelings, and learn how to give thanks in the midst of them, in a way that may not be appropriate in a larger gathering.
- Be sure that you prepare and choose someone to facilitate who is able to deal with raw feelings and emotions and turn this into a redemptive process for the whole group as well as the individual who might be struggling.
- How a group handles real issues shows the maturity of the group.
- Follow- up anything that is sensitive or manifests itself during the small group. Follow up needs to happen individually, outside of the small group as well.
- A good sense of humour needs to be encouraged after people are dealing with heavy stuff. We need to know that "we are but flesh" and that all of us can get "off track" but we all "need healing" in certain dimensions of our lives.
- Regularly use resources and Scriptures which highlight dealing with strongholds and "walking in freedom" in the group setting.
5.
Ministry to one another
When a small group of people meet together regularly, relationships develop and trust is built up, enabling us to minister to one another. As we worship and yield ourselves to God, personal issues often come to the surface:
- Teaching and modeling how to pray immediately for someone is key to maturity in Christ.
- We are given opportunity in the small group context to get personal and real - what most people want anyway.
- Healing often happens as we are prayed for by others.
- Restoration is so important for all to see.
- Gifts of encouragement, discernment, intercession, mercy and service are given expression.
6.
Accountability
Small groups also give an opportunity for ongoing accountability. God doesn't want us to be spiritual lone rangers; HIS plan is for us to be involved in each others's lives, helping to "spur one another on toward love and good works" (Hebrews 10: 24). Spiritual accountability and responsibility is an important principle of church life.
- Don't neglect to meet up outside the group setting.
- Encourage all acts of personal sharing and caring.
- Don't become an exclusive group but an inclusive group.
- Make sure the facilitators also have accountability with someones outside of the small group.
Adapted from 50 Small Group Worship Ideas by Stuart Townend with Morgan Lewis